Self-Care as ResistanceIt’s hard to stay present and grounded when you’re worried about literally everything, and right now the most significant act of rebellion…Nov 131Nov 131
If you live in a progressive city, stay putOkay, I need to be so fucking for real with those of my friends and queer community living in progressive “blue states,” and I say this…Nov 92Nov 92
Your Greatest Protest is LivingTrump won. Hate won. This is always how this election was going to play out. To be clear, the hatred, racism, misogyny, transphobia, and…Nov 61Nov 61
Before I came out as trans, even before I fully understood my transness, I had a particular inner…I lived in NYC at the time and immediately took note of how the general public started taking notice of me, touching me (like a man guiding…Sep 28Sep 28
If you think anybody in the context of this essay about a months-old and forgotten twitter hashtag…If you didn’t realize that I never endorsed the hashtag, I merely referenced its existence in regard to Rowling’s ongoing controversies…Apr 21, 2023Apr 21, 2023
“Getting older feels odd because I expected to be dead by now”Later this year I will become 35 years old.Feb 24, 20231Feb 24, 20231
Why didn’t more of us see Rowling’s bigotry coming?I recently had a commenter on one of my JK Rowling-related essays ask me:Feb 13, 20231Feb 13, 20231
When I first encountered these terms, Assigned sex" applied more to intersex people, while…I think that the conflation of these terms is down to the fact that male and female can refer to both sex characteristics AND gender…Sep 29, 2022Sep 29, 2022
